
The lady in the pictures above is Madeline Hastings. Maddy started an urban farm in front of her house in Laurens, SC back in 2020. I follow her on Facebook and have enjoyed her posts and videos in which she shares what she and her farm helpers are doing on the farm.
Her most recent post – which you can see at the top of this page – asked her followers to share their favorite flower.
Well, asking a gardener what their favorite flower is can be harder for them to answer than asking a parent who their favorite child is! There are so many flowers to choose from and so many reasons why you might like them from their beauty, to their colors, to their scents, and even, sometimes, their flavors!
In my case, I have been gardening for 50 years, so I have had many favorites over the years. If you’d like to know what my favorites have been over the years, read my answer to Maddy’s post below:
My favorite flower? That’s an impossible question for me to answer. It’s changed over the years as I’ve moved from place to place and tried my hand at growing different ones in different locations.
Early on it would have been the combination of Lilly of the Valley and Lilacs that would bloom in overlapping succession along the driveway of my grandparents’ house in New York. The light purple and white clusters of sweet smelling flowers of the lilacs arched over the carpet of dark green pointed spade-like leaves with the intensely perfumed white bells drooping from their stems. The effect was a series of sweet smelling, open, airy green tunnels that ran down the entire side of the driveway along the house on the property line with the neighbor’s yard just past them.
Later when I moved to DC I enjoyed finding the Virginia Bluebells that bloomed in shaded areas along the Potomac River while fishing and had a years-long obsession with Bleeding Hearts attempting to get them established in my landlady’s back yard next to a stump in her side garden. I managed to get them to return for 2-3 years at a time, but they always died off.
DC and the Mid-Atlantic is also where I made the acquaintance of Japanese Anemones and native red and yellow columbines. To this day I’ve enjoyed admiring light pink or white Japanese Anemones whenever I come across them, but can’t really grow them successfully here in the Midlands of SC. Zone 8b is just too hot.
I do have some red and yellow columbines in our school garden now – they aren’t the natives I first saw in DC in a bed on the shady side of a house in my old neighbirhood that was 1/3 Shasta Daisies, 1/3 Anemones, and 1/3 Columbines (a great combo for continuous spring through fall blooms). My columbines were grown from seeds collected from plants with blue flowers that I planted three years ago. All I can figure is they were a hybrid cross that reverted to one of the parents’ traits.
In NC I came to love the Dogtooth Violets I’d find blooming along the creeks I’d fish near Durham. I’d read about them as a boy, but never saw any back home on Long Island where I grew up or in the Mid-Atlantic while I was there. I also managed to grow cultivated Lobelia (Cardinal Flower) for the first time successfully. The wild variety has also been a favorite of mine since first seeing it in upstate New York on a late summer trip to Lake George. I now look forward to seeing it bloom along the Lower Saluda River here in Columbia every Fall.
Since moving to the Carolinas I’ve also enjoyed the more tropical flowers like the Tea Olives – if only for their fragrance – and the White Butterfly Ginger Lilies for both their late summer showiness and scent that can be detected many feet away from the plant. I love seeing Hummingbird Moths feeding on the ginger lilies in the evenings. We have two clumps of this plant growing in our school pollinator garden, and we are looking forward to its first blooms next year.
But as I sat here on my couch writing this on this snowy, cold morning, I looked up and realized that the flower that probably fits best as my favorite is the poppy. My entire living room is poppy themed from the poppy paintings to the wall decal to the Fedco Seed catalog print with the pen and ink poppy illustration on it and the poppy coverd carpet. I guess they’re my favorite because they are the first flower I grew at my grandparents’ house in the garden space they gave me that wasn’t something anyone in my family had ever grown before. Those first poppies were California Poppies and I loved how the plants looked like little gray-green carrots to me. The bright orange satélite dish like flowers were a fun surprise popping out in the rows where I interplanted them with lettuce when I was 8 or 9 years old.


If you have read everything above, I have a question for you…. What is YOUR favorite flower and WHY? Answer this question in the comments.
And if you didn’t guess Maddy’s favorite flower yet, here are some more pictures of her and her son on the farm with those flowers.




And here is more information about Maddy’s farm, Hasting’s Corner up in Laurens, SC.













